The Avoidances of the Enneagram
Each Enneagram style avoids a particular thing that they unconsciously believe will undermine their self-image. This unconscious self-belief often results in behaviour opposite of fear; for example, avoidance of criticism for Enneagram 1 might result in a personal drive for perfection. However, that person might be perceived as highly critical of others (and themselves, which is often not seen).
Enneagram 1
Enneagram 1’s are often avoidant of criticism which results in the drive for perfection.
Enneagram 2
Enneagram 2’s are often avoidant of their own needs, which results in the drive to appear helpful.
Enneagram 3
Enneagram 3’s are often avoidant of failure, which results in the drive to achieve success.
Enneagram 4
Enneagram 4’s are often avoidant of meaninglessness, which results in the drive to be different
Enneagram 5
Enneagram 5’s are often social interaction, which results in the drive for privacy and solitude.
Enneagram 6
Enneagram 6’s are often avoidant of risk & danger, which results in the drive for safety.
Enneagram 7
Enneagram 7’s are often avoidant of restraint & negativity, which results in the drive for freedom and positivity.
Enneagram 8
Enneagram 8’s are often avoidant of appearing weak, which results in the drive to appear strong.
Enneagram 9
Enneagram 9’s are often avoidant of conflict, which results in the drive to maintain harmony.
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